Dear Lansing USD 469 Parents / Guardians,
It is with great sadness that we must inform you about the passing of one of our seventh-grade students. This loss is sure to raise many emotions, concerns, and questions for our entire school, especially our students.
We understand that this news can be challenging and may bring up a range of emotions. Our school counselors and support staff are available to provide support and resources for students and families during this time of grief.
If you would like additional information or need assistance, please do not hesitate to contact one of the following counselors/psychologists:
Click here for our Lansing USD469 Mental Health Team
Please realize that reactions to death (and stress) are varied and can depend upon such factors as age, personality, previous losses, and relationship to the victims. If you feel your child has been affected by this situation, you can assist your child by doing the following:
Take time to listen to and talk with your child about what has happened.
Reassure your child that you will be available to help him/her through this difficult time.
Help your child verbalize some of the feelings he/she might be feeling but is unable to express.
Reassure your child that you will do all you can to keep him/her safe. Providing specific examples may help to reduce some of the fear and anxiety.
Discuss some of the things you and your child might do to express your concern for the victim’s family.
Any changes in your child’s behavior that seem extreme and/or do not seem to go away should be brought to the attention of the school guidance counselor or someone in the community of your choosing who can assist your child. We will continue to have staff available at school to assist our students in coping with this loss.
We are saddened by the loss to our school community and will make every effort to help you and your child as you need.
Marty Kobza, Lansing USD469 Superintendent